2 Samuel 14
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1Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king’s heart was toward Absalom. 2Joab sent to Tekoa, and brought a wise woman from there, and said to her, “Please act like a mourner, and put on mourning clothing, please, and don’t anoint yourself with oil, but be as a woman who has mourned a long time for the dead. 3Go in to the king, and speak like this to him.” So Joab put the words in her mouth. 4When the woman of Tekoa spoke to the king, she fell on her face to the ground, showed respect, and said, “Help, O king!” 5The king said to her, “What ails you?” She answered, “Truly I am a widow, and my husband is dead. 6Your servant had two sons, and they both fought together in the field, and there was no one to part them, but the one struck the other, and killed him. 7Behold, the whole family has risen against your servant, and they say, ‘Deliver him who struck his brother, that we may kill him for the life of his brother whom he killed, and so destroy the heir also.’ Thus they would quench my coal which is left, and would leave to my husband neither name nor remainder on the surface of the earth.” 8The king said to the woman, “Go to your house, and I will give a command concerning you.” 9The woman of Tekoa said to the king, “My lord, O king, may the iniquity be on me, and on my father’s house; and may the king and his throne be guiltless.” 10The king said, “Whoever says anything to you, bring him to me, and he will not bother you any more.” 11Then she said, “Please let the king remember Yahweh your God, that the avenger of blood destroy not any more, lest they destroy my son.” He said, “As Yahweh lives, not one hair of your son shall fall to the earth.” 12Then the woman said, “Please let your servant speak a word to my lord the king.” He said, “Say on.” 13The woman said, “Why then have you devised such a thing against the people of God? For in speaking this word the king is as one who is guilty, in that the king does not bring home again his banished one. 14For we must die, and are like water spilled on the ground, which can’t be gathered up again; neither does God take away life, but devises means, that he who is banished not be an outcast from him. 15Now therefore seeing that I have come to speak this word to my lord the king, it is because the people have made me afraid. Your servant said, ‘I will now speak to the king; it may be that the king will perform the request of his servant.’ 16For the king will hear, to deliver his servant out of the hand of the man who would destroy me and my son together out of the inheritance of God. 17Then your servant said, ‘Please let the word of my lord the king bring rest; for as an angel of God, so is my lord the king to discern good and bad. May Yahweh, your God, be with you.’” 18Then the king answered the woman, “Please don’t hide anything from me that I ask you.” The woman said, “Let my lord the king now speak.” 19The king said, “Is the hand of Joab with you in all this?” The woman answered, “As your soul lives, my lord the king, no one can turn to the right hand or to the left from anything that my lord the king has spoken; for your servant Joab urged me, and he put all these words in the mouth of your servant; 20to change the face of the matter has your servant Joab done this thing. My lord is wise, according to the wisdom of an angel of God, to know all things that are in the earth.” 21The king said to Joab, “Behold now, I have done this thing. Go therefore, and bring the young man Absalom back.” 22Joab fell to the ground on his face, showed respect, and blessed the king. Joab said, “Today your servant knows that I have found favor in your sight, my lord, king, in that the king has performed the request of his servant.” 23So Joab arose and went to Geshur, and brought Absalom to Jerusalem. 24The king said, “Let him return to his own house, but let him not see my face.” So Absalom returned to his own house, and didn’t see the king’s face. 25Now in all Israel there was no one to be so much praised as Absalom for his beauty. From the sole of his foot even to the crown of his head there was no defect in him. 26When he cut the hair of his head (now it was at every year’s end that he cut it; because it was heavy on him, therefore he cut it); he weighed the hair of his head at two hundred shekels, after the king’s weight. 27Three sons were born to Absalom, and one daughter, whose name was Tamar. She was a woman with a beautiful face. 28Absalom lived two full years in Jerusalem, and he didn’t see the king’s face. 29Then Absalom sent for Joab, to send him to the king, but he would not come to him. Then he sent again a second time, but he would not come. 30Therefore he said to his servants, “Behold, Joab’s field is near mine, and he has barley there. Go and set it on fire.” So Absalom’s servants set the field on fire. 31Then Joab arose, and came to Absalom to his house, and said to him, “Why have your servants set my field on fire?” 32Absalom answered Joab, “Behold, I sent to you, saying, ‘Come here, that I may send you to the king, to say, “Why have I come from Geshur? It would be better for me to be there still. Now therefore let me see the king’s face, and if there is iniquity in me, let him kill me.”’” 33So Joab came to the king, and told him; and when he had called for Absalom, he came to the king, and bowed himself on his face to the ground before the king; and the king kissed Absalom.
World English Bible (public domain)
“And the king said to her, "Do not hide from me anything I ask you." And the woman said, "Let my lord the king speak."”
2 Samuel 14:18
Summary
In 2 Samuel 14, Absalom's exile is addressed through a clever plan devised by Joab, David's commander. Joab employs a wise woman from Tekoa to approach King David with a fabricated story about her family, which underscores the themes of loss, reconciliation, and justice. The woman’s plea mirrors David's own family tragedy, prompting him to reflect on his estranged son, Absalom. The king eventually permits Absalom's return to Jerusalem, though he does not allow him to see his face, showcasing David's struggle between love for his son and the consequences of Absalom's actions. This chapter highlights the painful complexities of familial relationships, the need for forgiveness, and the difficulty of reconciliation, especially when deep hurt divides loved ones. Absalom's eventual return to the city, albeit with restrictions, symbolizes hope for restoration, yet the underlying tensions remain unresolved, suggesting that the path to reconciliation can be fraught with challenges. The woman’s rhetorical skill not only illustrates the power of wisdom but also serves as a reminder that God often uses unlikely instruments to convey truth and provoke action. Ultimately, this chapter underscores the profound impact of personal decisions on familial relationships and the importance of seeking forgiveness and healing within the family dynamic, a theme that resonates deeply in a faith context.
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How 2 Samuel 14 unfolds
2 Samuel 14:1–3 Joab's Plan for Absalom
Joab sees that King David's heart longs for Absalom, prompting him to devise a plan to bring him back.
2 Samuel 14:4–11 The Woman from Tekoa
Joab enlists a wise woman to approach the king, feigning a story about her family to gain his sympathy.
2 Samuel 14:12–20 David's Guilt and the Woman's Appeal
The woman challenges David to see his own situation, urging him to reconcile with Absalom as he would with her son.
2 Samuel 14:21–24 Absalom's Return Permitted
David, convinced by the woman's argument, allows Absalom's return to Jerusalem but restricts him from seeing the king's face.
2 Samuel 14:25–28 Absalom's Life in Jerusalem
Absalom's beauty and his isolation in Jerusalem are emphasized, highlighting the tension between his status and relationship with David.
2 Samuel 14:29–33 Absalom's Bold Move
Frustrated by his situation, Absalom forces Joab's attention by burning his field, leading to a meeting with David.
Key verses
2 Samuel 14:18The key verse captures the moment of accountability, reflecting the chapter's call for honesty and the need for reconciliation.
Main themes in 2 Samuel 14
Reconciliation
Reconciliation is central as the woman from Tekoa advocates for the return of the banished son, reflecting David's own estrangement from Absalom. The chapter develops this theme through David's hesitant agreement to allow Absalom back, symbolizing the complexities of familial bonds. Ultimately, reconciliation is portrayed as a painful yet necessary step toward healing within a fractured family.
Familial Relationships
Familial relationships are examined through the complex interactions between David, Joab, and Absalom in 2 Samuel 14, particularly in verses 1-3. This chapter develops these relationships by showcasing Joab's manipulation to bring Absalom back to David, reflecting the tensions and unresolved conflicts within the family. The narrative unfolds the struggle for recognition and connection, ultimately illustrating how love and past grievances intertwine, revealing the fragility that often exists within familial bonds.
Wisdom in Conflict
Wisdom in conflict is exemplified by the wise woman of Tekoa, whose insight persuades David to reconsider his stance on Absalom. Her rhetorical skill exposes the king's hypocrisy and urges him to act justly towards his son, complicating the narrative of power and authority. This theme emphasizes the role of wisdom as a catalyst for change in tense situations.
The Complexity of Forgiveness
The complexity of forgiveness is illustrated through David's internal conflict regarding Absalom after the murder of Amnon. The woman's plea prompts David to reflect on his own need for forgiveness and reconciliation, complicating the familial dynamics further. This theme emphasizes that forgiveness often involves acknowledging pain and making difficult choices.
Cross-references
Passages that echo 2 Samuel 14
- Numbers 35This passage connects with the idea of avengers of blood and the protection of the innocent, paralleling the woman's plea.
- Hebrews 9The themes of sacrifice and atonement resonate, as Absalom's situation raises questions about redemption and justice.
- 2 Samuel 13This chapter echoes the earlier narrative of family conflict, particularly regarding Absalom's murder of Amnon and its aftermath.
- 2 Samuel 19The eventual reconciliation between David and Absalom in this chapter sets the stage for further developments in their relationship.
- 2 Samuel 18Absalom's fate in this chapter foreshadows the tragic consequences of unresolved familial conflict and rebellion.
- 1 Samuel 25The wisdom of Abigail in this earlier narrative connects with the woman's role in persuading David to reconsider his actions.
Study questions
Questions for studying 2 Samuel 14
- What does Joab's action reveal about his view of David's leadership?
- How does the woman's story reflect the broader themes of longing and loss?
- In what ways does David's response to the woman mirror his own family dynamics?
- Why is Absalom's beauty mentioned, and what significance does it hold in this context?
- What does the phrase 'not see my face' suggest about David's feelings toward Absalom?
- How does Absalom's tactic of burning Joab's field illustrate his desperation?
- What implications does the chapter have for understanding forgiveness in familial relationships?
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