ScriptureDepth's study of 2 Samuel 14
“Then the king answered the woman, “Please don’t hide anything from me that I ask you.” The woman said, “Let my lord the king now speak.”
2 Samuel 14:18
The king speaks to the woman from Tekoa, setting in motion his inquiry into her true intentions, as his response leads to the return of Absalom.
What 2 Samuel 14 is about
Joab, concerned for Absalom, plans to persuade King David to allow him to return. He sends for a wise woman from Tekoa to present a case as a mourner. She tells the king she is a widow with two sons who fought, resulting in one killing the other. The woman fears her remaining son will be killed as retribution. King David assures her that none of her son’s hair will be harmed (vv. 4-11). The woman questions why David has not brought back his banished son, drawing a parallel to God's desire to restore the outcast (vv. 12-14). David acknowledges Joab's involvement and agrees to bring Absalom back (vv. 21-24). Absalom, known for his beauty, spends two years in Jerusalem without seeing David (vv. 25-28). Frustrated, Absalom sets Joab’s field on fire to get his attention, ultimately leading to his meeting with the king (vv. 29-33).
The chapter leaves the reader with the unresolved situation of Absalom's relationship with David after their long separation.
2 Samuel 14 at a glance
- 2 Samuel 14:1–3Joab's Plan for Absalom
- 2 Samuel 14:4–11The Woman from Tekoa
- 2 Samuel 14:12–20David's Guilt and the Woman's Appeal
- 2 Samuel 14:21–24Absalom's Return Permitted
- 2 Samuel 14:25–28Absalom's Life in Jerusalem
- 2 Samuel 14:29–33Absalom's Bold Move
Key verse: 2 Samuel 14:18
One thing to notice
Absalom's return to Jerusalem is marked by a delay after Joab's plan. The woman of Tekoa delivers her message in verses 2-3, and after the king's decision in verse 21, Absalom is brought back in verse 23.
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Joab's Plan for Absalom 2 Samuel 14:1–3
1Verse 1. Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king’s heart was toward Absalom. 2Verse 2. Joab sent to Tekoa, and brought a wise woman from there, and said to her, “Please act like a mourner, and put on mourning clothing, please, and don’t anoint yourself with oil, but be as a woman who has mourned a long time for the dead. 3Verse 3. Go in to the king, and speak like this to him.” So Joab put the words in her mouth.
The Woman from Tekoa 2 Samuel 14:4–11
4Verse 4. When the woman of Tekoa spoke to the king, she fell on her face to the ground, showed respect, and said, “Help, O king!” 5Verse 5. The king said to her, “What ails you?” She answered, “Truly I am a widow, and my husband is dead. 6Verse 6. Your servant had two sons, and they both fought together in the field, and there was no one to part them, but the one struck the other, and killed him. 7Verse 7. Behold, the whole family has risen against your servant, and they say, ‘Deliver him who struck his brother, that we may kill him for the life of his brother whom he killed, and so destroy the heir also.’ Thus they would quench my coal which is left, and would leave to my husband neither name nor remainder on the surface of the earth.”
8Verse 8. The king said to the woman, “Go to your house, and I will give a command concerning you.” 9Verse 9. The woman of Tekoa said to the king, “My lord, O king, may the iniquity be on me, and on my father’s house; and may the king and his throne be guiltless.” 10Verse 10. The king said, “Whoever says anything to you, bring him to me, and he will not bother you any more.” 11Verse 11. Then she said, “Please let the king remember Yahweh your God, that the avenger of blood destroy not any more, lest they destroy my son.” He said, “As Yahweh lives, not one hair of your son shall fall to the earth.”
David's Guilt and the Woman's Appeal 2 Samuel 14:12–20
12Verse 12. Then the woman said, “Please let your servant speak a word to my lord the king.” He said, “Say on.” 13Verse 13. The woman said, “Why then have you devised such a thing against the people of God? For in speaking this word the king is as one who is guilty, in that the king does not bring home again his banished one. 14Verse 14. For we must die, and are like water spilled on the ground, which can’t be gathered up again; neither does God take away life, but devises means, that he who is banished not be an outcast from him. 15Verse 15. Now therefore seeing that I have come to speak this word to my lord the king, it is because the people have made me afraid. Your servant said, ‘I will now speak to the king; it may be that the king will perform the request of his servant.’
16Verse 16. For the king will hear, to deliver his servant out of the hand of the man who would destroy me and my son together out of the inheritance of God. 17Verse 17. Then your servant said, ‘Please let the word of my lord the king bring rest; for as an angel of God, so is my lord the king to discern good and bad. May Yahweh, your God, be with you.’” 18Verse 18. Then the king answered the woman, “Please don’t hide anything from me that I ask you.” The woman said, “Let my lord the king now speak.” 19Verse 19. The king said, “Is the hand of Joab with you in all this?” The woman answered, “As your soul lives, my lord the king, no one can turn to the right hand or to the left from anything that my lord the king has spoken; for your servant Joab urged me, and he put all these words in the mouth of your servant;
20Verse 20. to change the face of the matter has your servant Joab done this thing. My lord is wise, according to the wisdom of an angel of God, to know all things that are in the earth.”
Absalom's Return Permitted 2 Samuel 14:21–24
21Verse 21. The king said to Joab, “Behold now, I have done this thing. Go therefore, and bring the young man Absalom back.” 22Verse 22. Joab fell to the ground on his face, showed respect, and blessed the king. Joab said, “Today your servant knows that I have found favor in your sight, my lord, king, in that the king has performed the request of his servant.” 23Verse 23. So Joab arose and went to Geshur, and brought Absalom to Jerusalem. 24Verse 24. The king said, “Let him return to his own house, but let him not see my face.” So Absalom returned to his own house, and didn’t see the king’s face.
Absalom's Life in Jerusalem 2 Samuel 14:25–28
25Verse 25. Now in all Israel there was no one to be so much praised as Absalom for his beauty. From the sole of his foot even to the crown of his head there was no defect in him. 26Verse 26. When he cut the hair of his head (now it was at every year’s end that he cut it; because it was heavy on him, therefore he cut it); he weighed the hair of his head at two hundred shekels, after the king’s weight. 27Verse 27. Three sons were born to Absalom, and one daughter, whose name was Tamar. She was a woman with a beautiful face.
28Verse 28. Absalom lived two full years in Jerusalem, and he didn’t see the king’s face.
Absalom's Bold Move 2 Samuel 14:29–33
29Verse 29. Then Absalom sent for Joab, to send him to the king, but he would not come to him. Then he sent again a second time, but he would not come. 30Verse 30. Therefore he said to his servants, “Behold, Joab’s field is near mine, and he has barley there. Go and set it on fire.” So Absalom’s servants set the field on fire. 31Verse 31. Then Joab arose, and came to Absalom to his house, and said to him, “Why have your servants set my field on fire?” 32Verse 32. Absalom answered Joab, “Behold, I sent to you, saying, ‘Come here, that I may send you to the king, to say, “Why have I come from Geshur? It would be better for me to be there still. Now therefore let me see the king’s face, and if there is iniquity in me, let him kill me.”’”
33Verse 33. So Joab came to the king, and told him; and when he had called for Absalom, he came to the king, and bowed himself on his face to the ground before the king; and the king kissed Absalom.
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Main themes in 2 Samuel 14
Reconciliation
Joab devises a plan to reconcile David with Absalom, culminating in vv. 21-22 when David agrees, saying, 'Go therefore, and bring the young man Absalom back.' The woman of Tekoa's appeal in v. 13 highlights David's guilt in not bringing back 'his banished one.' The chapter narrates the steps taken toward family restoration amid underlying tension.
Familial Relationships
The chapter examines familial relationships through Absalom's desire to restore his connection with King David. In v. 5, the woman of Tekoa shares her family tragedy, illustrating the consequences of conflict. Absalom's yearning for his father's presence in v. 32, where he states, 'If there is iniquity in me, let him kill me,' reveals the deep bonds and rifts within David's family.
Wisdom in Conflict
The woman of Tekoa employs her wisdom to navigate a difficult situation in vv. 4-11, where she presents her case to King David under the guise of mourning. She skillfully articulates her plea for mercy, stating, 'Neither does God take away life, but devises means.' Here, her insight serves to reveal the king's own failures in judgment regarding Absalom, prompting a reconsideration of his actions.
The Complexity of Forgiveness
The chapter presents the complexity of forgiveness through David's hesitant response to Absalom's return. In v. 24, David allows Absalom back but forbids him from seeing his face, indicating a reluctance to fully embrace forgiveness. This tension continues in vv. 29-32, where Absalom's attempts at reconciliation lead to extreme measures, demonstrating the challenges involved in the forgiveness process.
Chapter outline
How 2 Samuel 14 unfolds
2 Samuel 14:1–3 Joab's Plan for Absalom
Joab, perceiving that King David's heart was towards Absalom, devises a plan to bring Absalom back by employing a wise woman from Tekoa to present a compelling case (v. 1-3).
2 Samuel 14:4–11 The Woman from Tekoa
The woman from Tekoa approaches King David, declaring her widowhood and recounting a dispute between her two sons, pleading for mercy and saying, 'May the king and his throne be guiltless' (vv. 4-11).
2 Samuel 14:12–20 David's Guilt and the Woman's Appeal
The woman asks David why he has devised harm against the people of God, noting that the king is guilty for not bringing home his banished son, and she states, 'Your servant Joab urged me' (vv. 12-20).
2 Samuel 14:21–24 Absalom's Return Permitted
David instructs Joab to bring Absalom back, and Joab blesses the king, saying, 'Today your servant knows that I have found favor in your sight' (vv. 21-24).
2 Samuel 14:25–28 Absalom's Life in Jerusalem
Absalom returns to Jerusalem, noted for his beauty, with three sons and one daughter named Tamar, and he lives two years without seeing the king's face (vv. 25-28).
2 Samuel 14:29–33 Absalom's Bold Move
Frustrated by his separation from David, Absalom uses drastic measures by burning Joab's field to get his attention, leading to a confrontation where he demands to see the king (vv. 29-33).
Key verses
2 Samuel 14:18The king speaks to the woman from Tekoa, setting in motion his inquiry into her true intentions, as his response leads to the return of Absalom.
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Study questions
Questions for studying 2 Samuel 14
- observeIn v2, what does Joab instruct the woman from Tekoa to wear?
- observeWhat does Absalom do to Joab's field in v30?
- interpretThe woman's plea in vv. 13-14: how does it challenge David's view of his son?
- interpretIn v24, why does David allow Absalom to return but not see his face?
- applyWhen have you felt unable to confront someone close to you, as David does with Absalom?
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Cross-references
Passages that echo 2 Samuel 14
- Numbers 352 Samuel 14:14 and Numbers 35:28Both talk about being banished and not an outcast: 2 Samuel 14:14 says God devises means for the banished, while Numbers 35:28 clarifies return after the high priest's death.
- Hebrews 92 Samuel 14:14 and Hebrews 9:27Both address mortality: 2 Samuel 14:14 states we must die, while Hebrews 9:27 asserts it is appointed for men to die once.
- 2 Samuel 132 Samuel 14:13 and 2 Samuel 13:37Both mention family conflict: 2 Samuel 14:13 notes the king's guilt in not restoring the banished, while 2 Samuel 13:37 shows David mourning for Absalom.
- 2 Samuel 192 Samuel 14:17 and 2 Samuel 19:27Both depict the king as discerning: 2 Samuel 14:17 states the king discerns good and bad, while 2 Samuel 19:27 affirms the king's wisdom.
- 2 Samuel 182 Samuel 14:26 and 2 Samuel 18:9Both mention Absalom's hair: 2 Samuel 14:26 notes the weight of his hair, while 2 Samuel 18:9 depicts it as a cause of his downfall.
- 1 Samuel 202 Samuel 14:32 and 1 Samuel 20:8Both express a desire for truth: 2 Samuel 14:32 asks why Absalom cannot see the king, while 1 Samuel 20:8 shows David's hope for honesty.
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