Proverbs 13: Group Study Handout

How to use: read Proverbs 13 aloud together, then take the questions in order. One page is enough for an evening.

Overview

Proverbs 13 is a collection of sayings attributed to Solomon that focuses on the contrast between wisdom and foolishness, righteousness and wickedness. The chapter highlights how the wise are characterized by their prudent speech and diligence, while fools reveal their folly through impulsiveness and laziness. Key themes include the value of accepting discipline, which leads to life and growth, and the ruin that results from ignoring correction.

Key verse

“He who guards his mouth guards his soul. One who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.”
Proverbs 13:3 (WEB)

Outline

Proverbs 13:1–3 Listening to Instruction and Speech
Proverbs 13:4–6 The Diligent vs. the Sluggard
Proverbs 13:7–10 Wealth, Pride, and Quarrels
Proverbs 13:11–14 Wealth and Understanding
Proverbs 13:15–19 Understanding and Correction
Proverbs 13:20–22 Friendship and Inheritance
Proverbs 13:23–25 Justice and Discipline

Discussion questions

In v6, what does righteousness guard against for the sinner?
What does the word 'pride' in v10 indicate about relationships?
In v11, what tension exists around wealth gained dishonestly?
The phrase 'the way of the unfaithful is hard' in v15: what does this suggest about their choices?
When have you experienced a situation where 'the rod' in v24 felt necessary?

Go deeper

Passages that echo Proverbs 13: Proverbs 4, Psalm 1, Proverbs 18.

Before next time: read Proverbs 14.