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2 Samuel 19

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“The king covered his face, and the king cried with a loud voice, “My son Absalom, Absalom, my son, my son!”

2 Samuel 19:4

David laments publicly for his son Absalom, and his anguished cry stirs the mourning of the people, affecting their perception of victory in battle.

What 2 Samuel 19 is about

King David mourns deeply for Absalom, crying out, 'My son Absalom' (vv. 1-4). Joab confronts David, saying that he has shamed his servants by grieving for Absalom and urges him to comfort his people (vv. 5-7). The king rises and sits at the gate, where the people come before him after Israel has retreated to their tents (vv. 8-9). David sends word to the elders of Judah, urging them to bring him back as king since they are his kin (vv. 11-12). Amasa sways the hearts of the people, and they agree to bring back David (vv. 13-14). As David approaches the Jordan, Shimei the Benjamite seeks reconciliation, and David spares his life (vv. 16-23). Mephibosheth explains why he did not follow David, and they split Ziba's lands (vv. 24-30). Barzillai declines to join David in Jerusalem but offers his son Chimham (vv. 31-39). Conflict arises between the men of Judah and Israel regarding David's return (vv. 40-43).

David's return prompts questions about loyalty and unity among Israel and Judah.

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2 Samuel 19 at a glance

  1. 2 Samuel 19:1–2David's Grief Over Absalom
  2. 2 Samuel 19:3–7Joab Confronts David
  3. 2 Samuel 19:8–15David Returns to the Gate
  4. 2 Samuel 19:16–23Reconciliation with Shimei
  5. 2 Samuel 19:24–30Mephibosheth's Loyalty
  6. 2 Samuel 19:31–39Barzillai's Humility
  7. 2 Samuel 19:40–43Conflict Between Judah and Israel

Key verse: 2 Samuel 19:4

One thing to notice

In verses 5-7, Joab confronts David about his mourning, accusing him of prioritizing Absalom over his loyal servants. Joab states that this shames the soldiers who risked their lives, urging David to act and return to the people.

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David's Grief Over Absalom 2 Samuel 19:1–2

Verse 1. Joab was told, “Behold, the king weeps and mourns for Absalom.” Verse 2. The victory that day was turned into mourning among all the people; for the people heard it said that day, “The king grieves for his son.”

Joab Confronts David 2 Samuel 19:3–7

Verse 3. The people sneaked into the city that day, as people who are ashamed steal away when they flee in battle. Verse 4. The king covered his face, and the king cried with a loud voice, “My son Absalom, Absalom, my son, my son!” Verse 5. Joab came into the house to the king, and said, “Today you have shamed the faces of all your servants, who today have saved your life, and the lives of your sons and of your daughters, and the lives of your wives, and the lives of your concubines; Verse 6. in that you love those who hate you, and hate those who love you. For you have declared today, that princes and servants are nothing to you. For today I perceive that if Absalom had lived, and all we had died today, then it would have pleased you well.

Verse 7. Now therefore arise, go out, and speak to comfort your servants; for I swear by Yahweh, if you don’t go out, not a man will stay with you this night. That would be worse to you than all the evil that has happened to you from your youth until now.”

David Returns to the Gate 2 Samuel 19:8–15

Verse 8. Then the king arose, and sat in the gate. They told to all the people, saying, “Behold, the king is sitting in the gate.” All the people came before the king. Now Israel had fled every man to his tent. Verse 9. All the people were at strife throughout all the tribes of Israel, saying, “The king delivered us out of the hand of our enemies, and he saved us out of the hand of the Philistines; and now he has fled out of the land from Absalom. Verse 10. Absalom, whom we anointed over us, is dead in battle. Now therefore why don’t you speak a word of bringing the king back?”

Verse 11. King David sent to Zadok and to Abiathar the priests, saying, “Speak to the elders of Judah, saying, ‘Why are you the last to bring the king back to his house? Since the speech of all Israel has come to the king, to return him to his house. Verse 12. You are my brothers. You are my bone and my flesh. Why then are you the last to bring back the king?’ Verse 13. Say to Amasa, ‘Aren’t you my bone and my flesh? God do so to me, and more also, if you aren’t captain of the army before me continually instead of Joab.’”

Verse 14. He bowed the heart of all the men of Judah, even as one man; so that they sent to the king, saying, “Return, you and all your servants.” Verse 15. So the king returned, and came to the Jordan. Judah came to Gilgal, to go to meet the king, to bring the king over the Jordan.

Reconciliation with Shimei 2 Samuel 19:16–23

Verse 16. Shimei the son of Gera, the Benjamite, who was of Bahurim, hurried and came down with the men of Judah to meet king David. Verse 17. There were a thousand men of Benjamin with him, and Ziba the servant of Saul’s house, and his fifteen sons and his twenty servants with him; and they went through the Jordan in the presence of the king. Verse 18. A ferry boat went to bring over the king’s household, and to do what he thought good. Shimei the son of Gera fell down before the king, when he had come over the Jordan. Verse 19. He said to the king, “Don’t let my lord impute iniquity to me, or remember that which your servant did perversely the day that my lord the king went out of Jerusalem, that the king should take it to his heart.

Verse 20. For your servant knows that I have sinned. Therefore behold, I have come today as the first of all the house of Joseph to go down to meet my lord the king.” Verse 21. But Abishai the son of Zeruiah answered, “Shouldn’t Shimei be put to death for this, because he cursed Yahweh’s anointed?” Verse 22. David said, “What have I to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah, that you should be adversaries to me today? Shall any man be put to death today in Israel? For don’t I know that I am king over Israel today?” Verse 23. The king said to Shimei, “You will not die.” The king swore to him.

Mephibosheth's Loyalty 2 Samuel 19:24–30

Verse 24. Mephibosheth the son of Saul came down to meet the king; and he had neither groomed his feet, nor trimmed his beard, nor washed his clothes, from the day the king departed until the day he came home in peace. Verse 25. When he had come to Jerusalem to meet the king, the king said to him, “Why didn’t you go with me, Mephibosheth?” Verse 26. He answered, “My lord, O king, my servant deceived me. For your servant said, I will saddle me a donkey, that I may ride on it, and go with the king; because your servant is lame. Verse 27. He has slandered your servant to my lord the king, but my lord the king is as an angel of God. Do therefore what is good in your eyes.

Verse 28. For all my father’s house were but dead men before my lord the king; yet you set your servant among those who ate at your own table. What right therefore have I yet that I should cry any more to the king?” Verse 29. The king said to him, “Why do you speak any more of your matters? I say, you and Ziba divide the land.” Verse 30. Mephibosheth said to the king, “Yes, let him take all, because my lord the king has come in peace to his own house.”

Barzillai's Humility 2 Samuel 19:31–39

Verse 31. Barzillai the Gileadite came down from Rogelim; and he went over the Jordan with the king, to conduct him over the Jordan. Verse 32. Now Barzillai was a very aged man, even eighty years old. He had provided the king with sustenance while he stayed at Mahanaim; for he was a very great man. Verse 33. The king said to Barzillai, “Come over with me, and I will sustain you with me in Jerusalem.” Verse 34. Barzillai said to the king, “How many are the days of the years of my life, that I should go up with the king to Jerusalem? Verse 35. I am eighty years old, today. Can I discern between good and bad? Can your servant taste what I eat or what I drink? Can I hear the voice of singing men and singing women any more? Why then should your servant be a burden to my lord the king?

Verse 36. Your servant would but just go over the Jordan with the king. Why should the king repay me with such a reward? Verse 37. Please let your servant turn back again, that I may die in my own city, by the grave of my father and my mother. But behold, your servant Chimham; let him go over with my lord the king; and do to him what shall seem good to you.” Verse 38. The king answered, “Chimham shall go over with me, and I will do to him that which shall seem good to you. Whatever you request of me, that I will do for you.”

Verse 39. All the people went over the Jordan, and the king went over. Then the king kissed Barzillai, and blessed him; and he returned to his own place.

Conflict Between Judah and Israel 2 Samuel 19:40–43

Verse 40. So the king went over to Gilgal, and Chimham went over with him. All the people of Judah brought the king over, and also half the people of Israel. Verse 41. Behold, all the men of Israel came to the king, and said to the king, “Why have our brothers the men of Judah stolen you away, and brought the king, and his household, over the Jordan, and all David’s men with him?” Verse 42. All the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, “Because the king is a close relative to us. Why then are you angry about this matter? Have we eaten at all at the king’s cost? Or has he given us any gift?”

Verse 43. The men of Israel answered the men of Judah, and said, “We have ten parts in the king, and we have also more claim to David than you. Why then did you despise us, that our advice should not be first had in bringing back our king?” The words of the men of Judah were fiercer than the words of the men of Israel.

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Main themes in 2 Samuel 19

grief and loss

David's deep grief for Absalom is evident in verse 4, where he cries out, 'My son Absalom, Absalom, my son, my son.' This sorrow transforms the atmosphere, turning what should be a victorious moment into one of mourning, as noted in verse 2. The chapter conveys David's emotional turmoil, showing how intense personal loss can impact public life and the responsibilities of leadership.

leadership and duty

Joab confronts David in vv. 5-7, highlighting the conflict between personal grief and his responsibilities as king. Joab reminds David that his sorrow has shamed his servants, suggesting that leadership requires prioritizing the well-being of the people over personal losses. David's eventual decision to appear in the gate in v. 8 signals his recognition of duty.

forgiveness and reconciliation

Forgiveness and reconciliation are present in the interactions with Shimei in vv. 21-23. David chooses not to punish Shimei for cursing him during his flight, stating, 'You will not die.' This act of mercy promotes peace within the kingdom. David affirms his authority as king, asserting a commitment to unity rather than vengeance.

community support

The chapter reveals community dynamics, particularly in vv. 12-14, where David appeals to the elders of Judah, addressing them as 'my brothers' and 'my bone and my flesh.' The response unifies the tribes, as they send messengers to bring the king back, showcasing how loyalty and support among community members are essential during a leader's return.

Chapter outline

How 2 Samuel 19 unfolds

  1. 2 Samuel 19:1–2 David's Grief Over Absalom

    David's deep sorrow for his son Absalom becomes evident as he weeps loudly, causing the victory to be overshadowed by mourning (vv. 1-2). The people's shame leads them to sneak back into the city.

  2. 2 Samuel 19:3–7 Joab Confronts David

    Joab confronts David, expressing that his mourning has shamed his servants who fought for him (vv. 5-6). He urges the king to comfort his people, warning that they may abandon him if he does not act.

  3. 2 Samuel 19:8–15 David Returns to the Gate

    David sits at the gate, prompting the people to gather before him. They express their strife, recalling how David saved them, and ask why he has not returned, leading David to call the elders of Judah to bring him back (vv. 8-15).

  4. 2 Samuel 19:16–23 Reconciliation with Shimei

    Shimei approaches David to seek forgiveness for his past actions against the king (vv. 16-20). Despite Abishai's suggestion to execute Shimei, David spares him, asserting his reign over Israel (vv. 21-23).

  5. 2 Samuel 19:24–30 Mephibosheth's Loyalty

    Mephibosheth, who has been in mourning since David's departure, explains to the king that he was deceived by Ziba, and he expresses his loyalty and gratitude (vv. 24-28). David decides they shall share the land (vv. 29-30).

  6. 2 Samuel 19:31–39 Barzillai's Humility

    Barzillai, an elderly man who aided David, declines the king's invitation to Jerusalem, citing his age and desire to return home. He requests that his servant Chimham accompany the king instead (vv. 31-39).

  7. 2 Samuel 19:40–43 Conflict Between Judah and Israel

    Following David's return, tension arises between the tribes of Judah and Israel. The men of Israel demand recognition, claiming a greater stake in David, leading to a heated exchange (vv. 40-43).

Key verses

  • 2 Samuel 19:4David laments publicly for his son Absalom, and his anguished cry stirs the mourning of the people, affecting their perception of victory in battle.

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  1. observeIn v2, how does the people’s mood change after hearing about David’s grief?
  2. observeWhat does Joab accuse David of in v6 regarding his feelings for Absalom?
  3. interpretDavid's response to Shimei in vv. 21-22 raises the question: why does he choose mercy over punishment?
  4. interpretIn v29, why does David decide to divide the land between Mephibosheth and Ziba?
  5. applyWhen have you felt a tension between personal grief and public responsibility like David does in v8?

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What is 2 Samuel 19 about?+
King David mourns deeply for Absalom, crying out, 'My son Absalom' (vv. 1-4).
What is the key verse in 2 Samuel 19?+
2 Samuel 19:4: “The king covered his face, and the king cried with a loud voice, “My son Absalom, Absalom, my son, my son!”
What are the main themes of 2 Samuel 19?+
The main themes of 2 Samuel 19 are grief and loss, leadership and duty, forgiveness and reconciliation, community support.

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